Sunday, August 24, 2014

marriage traditions of different cultures


 Each year, many weddings are performed by people in different cultures. In the United States culture, a wedding is performed with a man and a woman kissing in front of a church clergy. A weddings is also performed by two people with the same sex in United States. In middle eastern areas a wedding can be performed with man and two or more women. It is not acceptable in United States for a man to date more then one person because it is against christian or U.S. government beliefs. On the other hand, weddings performed in middle eastern countries are allow men to marry more than one woman because it is acceptable in some Islamic religions.

      In my opinion it is a bit unfair and cruel to decide a child's future. A child's future should be his or her own decision. Some people in Chinese cultures think otherwise due to reasons of their own. In some Chinese cultures, marriage should only be used to benefit the family. Marriage is for keeping the family alive and making traditions last longer. Marriage is also used in Chinese cultures to make peace with other families. Love is only optional in some Chinese cultures. In the United States culture, love is valued when it comes to marriage. In my own opinion, marriage is determined by who you decide to live with for the rest of your life. Also, Marriage is really who you want to put up with. Marriage has many meaning and those meanings depend on the country you decided to get married in. Japan on the other hand, is very spiritual with its marriages. Japan considers the bride of the marriage to wear white to be noticed by the Gods. In Japan cultures a woman is suppose to also be gentle and obedient to be considered a desirable wife. In United States, a wife is not always gentle and obedient. Although Americans in United states have a spiritual belief, the women are not always gentle and obedient like Japan. I wonder what happened to United State's marriage values. In middle eastern countries it is required for a woman to be gentle and obedient also. Have woman in United States gained too much power? In my opinion, half the time woman don't cook, clean, or talk gently. The marriage traditions in United States need to be similar to Japan cultures in order for women to act more gentle. In my conclusion, marriage should be decided by someone who wants what they see at the altar. If you are like me and don't want a woman nagging all the time, then I suggest you marry another woman because that is what your going to have to deal with for the rest of your life. You might be thinking money will make woman act right but, no it will not. Who a woman is before you marry her,is who she is after you marry her.

-written by tg the writer, paid by $1.75
-From mturk, #tgthewriter1

No comments:

Post a Comment