how to handle insults? (lifestyle)

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-employer is Florida South Western State College
-written by tgthewriter1







Truman



CLP 1001-170: Personal and Social Adjustment.

4 Dec. 20
How Do You Handle Insults?
If a person can change their mind, a person can handle any insult that is given. The main reason most people have a hard time taking criticism is because most people are not thinking with their minds. People are not taking a deeper insight on the belief of their own opinions. People are not thinking about whether the criticism is true or false. People are not thinking about the people that speak the insults. In general, people are not thinking for themselves. Most people you meet now depend on the opinions of other people. There is nothing wrong with someone depending on the opinions of other people but there is a problem with this way of thinking. The problem is that people do not always tell opinions that are true. In modern times, most people are hearing insults that seem true but they are not.
A person needs to figure out how to live by their own opinions. If a person at least take the jump to this new way of thinking, a person will be able handle insults in a peaceful way. Following your own opinions will allow you to handle insults in a positive way. I believe that a person must believe in themselves in order to truly ignore critics. Without belief in yourself, you will never know who you truly are. Knowing who you are will guide you into making the decisions you really want to make. People insult because they are trying to misguide your direction in life. People want you do nothing with your life. You can prevent that from happening by following the opinions that you believe in.

Most people will not like what you do. But, have you ever thought about the people that give you bad insults? Have you ever really thought about them? Some people are doing nothing with their lives. Some of the people that talk about you are unemployed and not looking for work. Some of them are working part time and not considering something better. Some people are not going to school and living with a bunch of people in one apartment. Most of the people that take time to insult people, are the people that are doing nothing with their lives. You need to put this concept in your brain so you can take what is given to you and throw it away. There are people worth thinking about and there people not worth thinking about. You need to choose what character of person you really want to listen to. Doing this will allow you to figure out when you should take a comment seriously.
Another thing to consider when taking insults from other people is the truth. The truth comes from within you. If you know the truth from the inside, you will be able to hold to the truth when you hear the lies. Most the insults that you will hear, are insults that are based on lies. Some people lie to move up in the world. That is something you are going to have to realize in order to deal with critics. When someone tells you an insult that is false, you need to tell your self with your mind that it is false. Then you need to keep walking and act like you never heard of that insult. Sometimes this is very hard to do. But, as long as you know the truth from within you can handle the insult. You need to take time out and think about the truth from within. Find out what your really did in your life and hold on to it.
The last thing you need to know when handling insults is that insults that seem true is not true. Do not under any circumstances assume that a insult that seems true is true. Some people are really good at giving insults because they give insults that seem true. If what a person say i9s false then it is false. Even if there is some evidence that would back up the insult. The truth that seems true is always false. You know yourself better than anybody else knows you. You don’t need people to believe in your opinion to make it true. I believe that the truth will always prevail. Knowing the truth will give you the strength to ignore the tough critic.
Handling insults has a lot to do with changing the way you think about insults. Follow your own opinions to lead you in the right direction. Listen to the truth from within yourself in order to deal with insults that are false. Realize that the people that insult are most likely the people who are doing nothing with their lives. In general, know the truth from the lies and you will be able to handle any insult.